Usually I do not spend a lot of time follow up with the news. I only listen to Bill Good's show during my morning commuting hours. Schiavo's case got my attention there. For me, it is extremely hard to tell which side is right or wrong. Here I am just going to tell something about my own experience.
Last year, I got two close relatives died of cancer. One was my brother-in-law, the other was my oldest and closest cousin. My brother-in-law took care of my high school eduation and partially funded my university education. When I got the news that he was diagnosed of having lung cancer. My immediate reaction was that it must be a medical mistake. Then I confirmed all the symptons and got to know it was the fact. I started nightmares for weeks. In the nightmare, I saw my brother-in-law healthy, smiling, and woke up realizing he was going to die soon. The weeks before his death, he suffered tremendous pains. I was keeping blaming myself for not being able to help anything there. Finally one of my good friends, who had similiar experiences, told me something: if death is inevitable, what is more important is the people still living. By torturing youself, you won't cure the dying.
Eventually I overcame that, and started to think, if I had similar case, would I choose to die with diginity without suffering those pains. After pros and cons, I concluded:
Being given life to this world, whether it is happy, painful, suffering, or whatever, I need to finish the life naturaly as it was naturally given. I am against dying in dignity.
Any comments are very welcome.
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紫晶耳钉 ()
Posted: 2005-4-01 15:36
This news actually triggered off hot debates about the right to die in America. But it's not the case, I think. Because it's not Terry Schiavo who decided what to do with her own life, but her husband Michael and her parents who did that. Although Michael's decision to let her die was against by many demonstrators, many more Americans think they will do the same thing. According to some suveys, 59% of the Americans say they would do the same thing to their families, while more than 70% will choose to die if they face the same situation with Terry.
The only thing I feel bad is that they should let her just starve to death. It's too cruel. euthanasia might be a better idea.
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紫晶耳钉 ()
Posted: 2005-4-01 15:39
by the way, do you mind if I put an article here written by myself so that some others might know some background of this news?
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Steve ()
Posted: 2005-4-01 17:05
Wow, a couple of really good English writers here.
I must admit I have not followed the Schiavo case really closely. As medical science makes it possible to keep people alive who would otherwise die, we as a society will have to decide how much of this we are going to pay for. There is no limit to how much we can pay for medical care. It was not so long ago in the history of mankind that the old or the infirm were simply discarded or exposed to the elements and left to die.
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Thanks Steve. You made good points about current medical achievements of being able to preserve the life in a certain way. This actually makes things not so natural as people would normally think or judge.
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bypasser
四.昔.上.初
Posted: 2005-4-01 20:14
I followed the Terry Schiavo case on and off. It is a real tragedy that she died of starvation and dehydration days before the Federal court finally agreed to review the facts of the case, a rare legal victory for the her parents.
From her case, I feel the political correctness has overtaken the common sense and justices in American judicial system.
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The court considered the spouse has the privilege over Terry’s parents when it comes to the matter of Terry’s will, even after her husband has lived with another woman and had two children with her for ten years. I would agree that the spouse is the most suitable legal guardian in most cases if the couple are in normal marriage. In this case, I strongly doubt how much his husband is still loving her. On the other hand, the love to the child never fades no matter what has happened to the child. The bigger the tragedy on the child, the greater love from the parent. Therefore, I have to say in this case, Terry’s parents are the people really looking after the best interest of her. But the court simply failed them.
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It is outrageous that the local court refused to insert the feeding tube after the Federal court finally agreed to hear Terry’s parents’ pleading. There is a possibility that the Federal court might overturn the lower court decision of unplugging her feeding tube. By refusing to allow the tube be reinserted, the lower court carried out Terry’s execution to avoid the embarrassment of ruling overturned. They consider their face more than a person’s life.
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One thing the Federal court was going to exam is whether Terry’s condition is really irreversible. In light of the new technology, it is possible that her condition might be improved. At least , the court system should allow Terry’s parents exhaust all the legal options before letting her die.
People can learn a lot from Schiavo’s case. One thing obvious to me is the judicial system in US and Canada is not longer the arbitration organization for justices, rather than a group of elites considering themselves morally and intelligently superior than ordinary people.
歪瓜裂枣, my sympathy for your lose. It is norble that you share the feelings with us. I agree with you that we should choose to die with dignity. However, in some cases, fighting with death is also an honorable thing. To the people who loves you, the fight is also for them.
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ML ()
Posted: 2005-4-01 20:43
Thanks "bypasser". By reading your comments in the end, I noticed one possible misunderstanding that I should make clear: I am against dying in diginity instead of for it, but not sure of Shiavo's case because there are too many unnatural factors involved. By saying dying in diginity, I meant that someone is suffering and there is no cure like cancer, instead of suffering, the one who suffers may choose to die with some medical assistance.
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